Listen,
You have the most influence on you.
When you speak negative things about yourself, you hear you.
You direct your actions in the direction of what you say.
Stop repeating what others say about you.
Speak peace
Speak love
Speak empowerment
Speak growth
Speak legacy
Speak power
Speak embracing words
Let your ears hear from you what is acceptable and then your ears will know what to reject.
You are worth it.